Ive been divorced from my ex husband over 6 years. Karina, If you do not follow the Court Order willfully, you are in Contempt and you will go to jail or pay a fine or you could even lose custody. What can I do in order to see my son before the court date? My husbands ex-wife, is refusing to let him see his kids. Google him and see what he says. My husband and his ex-wife have Shared Legal custody in the state of Florida. That is, if there is not any reason for her to stop allowing visitation and if there was, she should have filed the emergency hearing. Help Im so scared, I am considering moving out of massachusetts to upstate New York with my daughter who is 16 yrs old. I was just asking because school hours are from 8am to 3-4pm and he is not allowed over nights. What makes things even worse is the complacency of the police to enforce a court order. I live in California. I moved hrrenin april and the kids and him came at the end of may. My daughter receives no help raising this little girl and she does it all on her own with no State benefits either. can really solve your problem. Check your state code. His dad first of all start seeing him without me knowing it, them he has withdrawed him out of school and placed him in school near him, again without me knowing. I called and filed a report, it was taken very seriously. If the child is returned to the custodial parent voluntarily, the offense is a Class A . Its time to stop this madness, forget the past, and learn to live, love, and forgive. Those are my kids, im the father, why isnt there any laws to help me. If he lawyers up dont let that attorney intimidate you or confuse you with the facts. Your child must have lived in Massachusetts for at least 6 months immediately before you file for custody. The non-custodial parent refuses to let the child attend. She has 2 kids a boy his dad is deceased and a girl by her husband. First and foremost, this means . What can we do with this? In the past 2 years he has lost all but a few of his teeth so we are positive he us back on it. Why do you not have a domestic violence restraining order? My questions: I do not teach them to hate their dad, I tell them the truth in the past when they asked about him, but now they do not ask for him and the children are just 5,5, and 4. Cant stress documentation enough. Father (non-custodial) is in Florida, Mother and child are in Oklahoma. I knew they would enjoy the time together as would my ex inlaws love being able to have plenty of time with him. Punishable by jail time LOL not if a mother does it, I got the incident report of my address from the city I live it & the list is extensive, couple dozen custody interference calls. I am concerned for our childrens safety. I will not make that costly mistake again. If you are have you told a counselor or teacher or someone about what is going on and has it been witnessed by someone else other than your mom? I called the sheriff in that county for help with a assist as I figured there would be problems, the det. Did you give reasonable notice that you wanted to change this Agreement? Restrictions or loss of visitation or custody, or. And on several court ordered dates she has made plans for the child on that day and says that he can come too or take him to the activity instead of allowing him to plan the activity he would like to bond with his child. You could also request longer visitation times for summer and holidays. he seved his time and paid his debt. Also the neighborhood they live in is very dangerous, with 90 sex offenders within one mile of their home. We launched in 2006 and quickly became one of the web's most popular family law websites. Ive tried to call AND go to my sons school to get information and they refused to give it to me. My almost 3 year old daughter is being coached/told to say, mama, bye bye and nothing else. You might request regular short visits to start, then agree that at a certain age, these turn into overnite stays. Online version of a great book, this chapter covers all the details of an action to move out of state with your child, or to prevent the other parent from moving. Class C felonies are the second degree charges. Make sure you have a parenting plan filed with you petition. If she refuses the child it is contempt of Court (the Court gave the Order so the contempt is against them and that doesnt stand well with them) or if the Court Order is clear then it is interference with custody and the sheriff/law must enforce it by you showing the law/statute in your state for interference with custody. similar to such situation because there is always a hope and a solution what can we do? Ya but I raised both of those boys more than she has the youngest has lived with me more than her and the previous weekend she sent him home right after he got there he threw up on her. He just did not want our daughter at the residence. What happens when a teen leaves home under 18 and another family is allowing her to stay the not a blood relative it a boyfriends parents by allowing her to stay when iM demanding her home is this custodial interfearence? With time spent in early childhood development classes. My sister left her husband in missouri and came to my house in texas. I dont mind if they are within a reasonable area, but this weekend my commute would have consisted of one hour to the friends house, then one hour back to my home, which doesnt leave me any time to spend with her before she goes to bed. We have taken all of the steps that the police the courts even the magistrate have been telling us and most of it is that we cant do anything, we can not do a missing persons report because they say Virginia doesnt do that!!!! QUESTION: I also noted to them that the gma fraudulently signed the paperwork stating she was the Parent/Legal Guardian. If we say we want the best for our children how could we put them through these kinds of custoidial battles. I live in Indiana and I have a set of newborn twins. This is also reflected in the state of Georgias statutes (google the state statutes and go down to child custody). If my ex has primary physical custody through the week and one of my kids is sick and cant go to school who watchs him? Stepfather is a drunk. Legal Documents? My daughter (age 20) has full legal and physical custody of her 18 month old daughter. She got me to sign a paper giving her legal custody which she told me as temporary custody. I work full time and she goes to community college. Recently though, she has started to be more neutral during conversations, and has even corrected her dad a few times and defended me. So I freaked out calling both of them until seven thirty, at which point I called the police for kidnapping on Symone. If it is the later I dont see how a court order in another state holds precedence. Family courts are corrupt and they have a way of preventing good parents (Fathers typically) from having reasonable contact and relations with their children. I can provide financially for both of my children, it will be hard, but it is possible. My husbands ex wife goes out with her current husband to bars and leaves the 13 year old daughter home alone. my sons dad has not seen him in two years and my three year old son has autism he knows another man as daddy who has supported him since he was 1. my sons dad has such mean things about my son like calling him fat ugly a retard and bastard and much more. systems? I could not seeing how I was not aware of situation, we were living together at time and he phase this planned, as soon as he had custody, he left with my infant, she was 3 months at time. He told me to sign my rights over and he wpould never bother me again He has been doing stuff like this to me for the past 4 or 5 years when he gained primary custodion. Since last year i have completed a 6 month treatment I am currently in couseling and i have maintained sobriety after treatment for the last 6 months. We can not afford what we have been told it will cost to get this corrected and justice be served. There is no order in the courts for custody or visitation. Does anyone on this site agree with me that there needs to be a MAJOR overhaul of the laws with respects to visitation. We want to get married and raise the kids in a normal family!. ). Her father is the one who supervises the visitation (I believe this is unfair to me and the children). She needs to get out of that house! Unfortunately, many people in Tennessee face this problem every day. This will avoid all conflict later then make a copy off it and give it to you lawyer out send it to the courts but for your benefit keep the original. And I want to him to drive an hour further and I will drive and 1 and 1/2 hours further. shame on her. Interference with parental custody may be punishable as a severity level 10, person felony, or class A person misdemeanor, depending on the surrounding circumstances. What an inconvenience HE ACTUALLY HAS TO MAKE AN EFFORT AND DRIVE TO SEE HIS KID? Tina even holds a special designation: she is board-certified in marital and family law. My brother has full custody of his 7 year old daughter. A solid pick-up order or Habeas Corpus for the child's recovery is very important, especially when the child is believed to be outside the jurisdiction. So I was granted full sole legal and SOLE physical custody and father gets no visitations until he goes to court and pleads with judge. I live in WA ( where they were cited for ^^^^^^^^). He just shows up. Judges dont see the parents, they see attorneys when pro se they see you and the see the other parent then they are BOUND to make the right decision they have no attorney to blame and neither do you. We love the boys. But my parents have already agreed to sign custody over to me. If DCF finds nothing and you are still concerned then file for a modification. Her mother even emails lies to me about her concerns for my daughters well being when she is with me. Part 1. In the mean time my daughter and I lost all contact, they changed her cell #, they painted me out to be a horrible person and the last time I saw her or hugged her was 3 years ago. Domestic Violence went on and I got a No Contact Order, but still provide to allow her to see our son, but was in fear, as she never went to get mental health treatment. That should be the same in all states. explaining further that by telling someone it would only mean that he wanted it mind was already made up and if my son didnt answer the way I needed him to he We believe that the children have been left alone unsupervised since the incident of assault happened and that their mother is verbally abusive to the 7 year old. But now he moved 2yrs ago to Orange county . 824 (1999)De facto parents. Family law attorney in Boca Raton Tina L. Lewert can serve as a valuable ally during a very difficult time in your life. Your son has to get out of the victim complex and fight or he will be another statistic and so will his child your grandchild! I feel like I have been getting the short end of the stick all along and she gets whatever she wants. That was 2005, 6 months later I was able to move back to be with my son And now there is not contact. Just because of one mistake, and a non violent one at that, do we really have to be seperated? He has no driving priveleges and cant take her anywhere. I feel helpless in IL as if I was in AZ I could simply go with the police and pick up my children. If she or you want to change it you must file in court with the judge for what is called a Modification of Visitation. Be careful she does not file it on her end as the likelyhood of her getting what she wants is about 85% especially if she has an attorney or has hit you with a order of protection. If they are attempting to buck the system, stand solid with the parent of your child. I have seen my daughter 2 times and she is only 3 years old. If one cant afford the child support owed, better get another job, it was your decision to have a baby, and brought the child into the world, children dont ask to be brought into this world. Watch on. That will not make him look good when you go to court, so just keep trying to communicate with her. She doesnt teach him anything, she doesnt make him brush his teeth (he does now because we called her out on it and she went and bought stuff so she doesnt look like a bad mother too late) and she lied about enrolling him in preschool. The father (never married him) and I established paternitiy/child support in 2000 in Marion County, Fl. Its not just about Fathers fighting for parenting time/custody. Once these men realize what the game is, they split. You will need someone who can get to the bottom of the original case and convince a judge that the order he has is in violation of the order of jurisdiction and is an example of parental alienation. @ lived and I told police. we are selling our new honda odysessy we worked so hard to get for a family of 7 to protect one abused childcourts side with bio mom no matter how much actual evidence a lawyer produces for dadthe damsel in distress even false distress usually wins. Family law & practice. Cursing, addictive personality , been in counseling all school year with me and my husband religiously every weds for 1hr. judges dont take kindly to a party that ignores a court order. I have her for 5 weeks in the summer since I live out of state. Unless theres something you arent revealing , I sure to hell wouldnt be doing without MY CHILDREN in a million years. The child was seeing a play therapist until early April when she cancelled to take him to another therapist to get the new therapist to write a note stating the child poops his pants bc of his father (which he does the same at our home). Seeing that this is the case calling the police will do nothing more for you than what I will tell you as the will say the same thing. He says he will see them and wont, has no vehicle, lives with the child molester who is bipolar and has another friend who is bipolar and I copied her blogs to show her mental illness is not in control. You dont have to split a sick day unless you agree to it. worry because i have a good news for those out there that are faced or Im sure youve both made mistakes forget about that and do what is in the best interest of the baby you have created together despite your relationship now and in the future. Remain a loving and compassionate parent who knows that boundaries must be kept. He is on his THIRD lawyer just trying to be able to see his children, like the decree states, and she still continues to break the law. Try to defuse issues rather than assume there may be an issue that will not exist. Hi, heres my situation I am the step mother to a wonderful 11 yeat old boy. If you go this route you will need to explain very concisely that the childrens home is with you and all of there belongings are at your residence and the kids were taken by the police and given to your ex. I live 15 minutes away from he and my son. I am not informed of appts and I have to file a motion for contempt of court order and a subpoena for the records because the CP nor the doctor will let me have his records or even talk to me about his treatment which is Adderall xr at a large dose for his age? To answer your question yes your ex can be held in contempt and it really is not more than spoken words or words on paper. My question is: If the mother lives across the river in another state and he has to get the police involved, is it possible she will be charged with a felony even though from our house to hers it is only 30 miles? I am currently filing a motion for more time, well see what happens, but I wont give up. I looked at divorce papers and no mention of what to do if child needs pass port to go abroad. What legal recourse do I have and how can I get my children back? So I bought the tickets. In 1991 my husband went through a divorce before we got back together. There is no custody order ever filed and I live in one state now and the mother another state. The police told her they would arrest her for harrassment if she called there. This will be a difficult and uphill battle. Have you fought for the rights of your child, been active in their lives or signed over your parental rights or ignored a filing that you may be served. That way you have proof she would not respond appropriately when asked. My 14 year old granddaughter who has been living with her dad totally for the last 19 months has been ordered by a judge to visit her Mom every other weekend. all the want is my money and cut me out. I am filing for a divorce and my sons father want joint physical as well as legal custody of him. I have joint custody. I have seen, touched, smelled, heard from my child in over 2 1/2 months. Have the school contact you if your daughter has not been picked up within 15 minutes of release or the end of an activity. And if so how or what will it take for him to do so? believe he was ever molested by anyone.. The local authorities were no help. Legally, I would make sure I had mail, voice messages, cell texts, whatever to prove that I tried to fulfill the Order so he cant say you interfered or are in willful contempt. If you want custody, provide the stable environment. Things need to change and people need to wake the heck up. My ex-girlfriend refuses to let me see my son until a final court determination is set by a judge. I didnt want to spread my germs so I didnt go to their house. Is this considered to be Custodial Interference? Do I have to give them back to him on Thursday? She hasnt seen them in 6 months and is 2 years behide in child support. Yes this is fair game as there is no custody or visitation established. You are trying to find things to be angry about. She will have kids for the summer, what can i do if she dont return them? 4 years ago I was divorced and immediately served with an order of protection spent my daughters birthday in jail because I called her mom to ask to meet an hour later than previous scheduled and before I new it probation and classes when the only violence Ive ever exerted was at 12 yrs involving a BB gun and a bird that still bothers me, my ex had every court tactic you can think of and my court min are the longest in the state of Arizona anyone has ever seen and after pumiling me to a severe depression she then tried to terminate my parental rights all together. Also in the court order it says she is to have reasonable phone access to her child. We cant go to court here in Arkansas because the kids dont live here so we have to go back to wisconsin if we want to go to court because that is where the court order for joint legal custody was signed. These smaller things really need to be worked out between the two of you or the Court may take the child away from both of you. Here is my suggestion, take it for what it is worth and understand things are a little different from state to state. So with that being said to say that she smokes around the child, doesnt teach him anything or some of the other things you said will not stick as this is personal opinion unless you have a judge that shows you sympathy. Talk to an adult friend. What do I do to protect my rights, And my daughters rights? She refuses to let me have contact with my daughter and at this Time I have no paternal writes due to we where not married and i was incarcerated during my daughters birth. YEP. My case has been taken over by DuPage Co Courts. Can he do that or can the cops make him give me the kids for my vacation? I know its aggravating to deal with men when you dont want to, but its your chance to stop being self-absorbed and think about your child(ren). And mediator that clear to him. The issue with Texas, which not all states have in their Civil Laws of Procedure or their child custody codes, is they actually have a clause allowing them to hear jurisdictional issues with regards to custody BUT it also states that the Texas court is to set up a conference call in the state of Initial Jurisdiction requiring that state to have a Evidentiary Hearing (fact finding) about all matters of the case before they will weigh in on the matter. Its clear to me, my older daughter, his family, my family and some mutual friends that he is manipulating her. We went to court for four years over and over again before she finally showed up. I dont want to come between you and your father, I just want us to have a mother-daughter relationship. And I owe child support for him and they put a block on my license. Please limit your input to 500 characters. What do we do until then? Thank you for your help. And no i dont forget it when i know we are goin somewhere and yes i did count the diapers. I recommend anyone My daughter is forced to do chores all day while step mom sits on the computer, anyways. If one parent is uncooperative in this regard and if it can be shown to the court one parent is uncooperative when it comes to co-parenting, then that person can loose parenting time and rights. Im just trying to make sure this is a legal thing to do. But Im out of work. I feel I am policed and constantly tries to find info on me to take to court. Her mother has convinced her that Randy is an awful person. Her dad absolutely refuses to communicate with me so I bought her a cell phone (paid, unlimited text/talk/etc) that she can call or text me ANYTIME. Its disgustingly sad when a person can read through everything that A FATHER

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